Quiet Friday night

I’m all confused in my days. Hayley had a day off on both Thursday and Friday so it kind of feels like Sunday, or Saturday at the very least. I’m certainly not complaining; four days of not having to get up before the sun has fully risen is just fine with me.

I spent my Friday evening trying to get into the holiday spirit just a bit. See, we can’t put up and decorate the tree until next Saturday because I use an activity-based Advent calendar and decorating the tree is one of our family activities. I’ll probably do that on Friday or Saturday. However, all the neighbors have slowly been setting out their lights and whatnot and I was getting antsy, what with seeing decorated trees through everyone’s window and all.

I decided to hang the Advent calendar on our entertainment unit, put the wreath on our front door, and since we’re getting a pre-lit tree from a friend I decided I’d put our usual lights up in the windows.

Ha. HAHAHA.

I quickly remembered that the fastest way to kill all of my Christmas spirit is to hand me Christmas lights. I hate lights. I mean, I love the way they look and they make me happy – plus I am a photo nut so God knows I love the bokeh that comes with the holiday lights. But putting them UP? Oh my hell. I curse and swear and feel very un-Christmasy to say the least. Thank goodness I at least won’t have to bother with stringing the lights up around a tree because that usually takes at least two tries, many deep breaths, and a glass of wine after the fact.

I calmed myself down by putting the kids to bed and watching Angelina Jolie kick some serious ass in one of my favorite movies that she ever starred in. Seeing someone else whack the crap out of someone – in style – always helps. Thank goodness I have a party to go to tomorrow, that will be a welcome distraction!

How was YOUR Friday?

Happy Yanksgiving

I’m a big fan of turkey. Seriously, I really love it like nobody’s business. Because of that I get a bit envious every year when it’s the U.S. Thanksgiving and everyone below the border is digging into some turkey, stuffing, and cranberries even though it’s silly since we already had our Thanksgiving last month. (We won’t discuss the pumpkin pie because I might cry.)

Well, because of that I do a little bit of “Yanksgiving” up here on the American holiday. And here it was.

Okay, fine. It was just a frozen dinner that I heated in the microwave. Normally I do some roast chicken with a nice potato casserole side dish and stuffing and blablabla. I’m just getting over the plague though and between taking the dog out for two good long walks (to make up for not doing so the past couple of days) and cleaning the apartment up, this was all I had the energy left to do.

And for a frozen dinner it was pretty decent really.

Alas. At least I’m getting a real turkey dinner in exactly one month at Christmas.

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Speaking of which, winter is well on its way. These bright red berries keep hanging in there through frosts and below-zero windchill days but I’m curious to see how long they hold up against the actual winter months.

We shall see.

Good reports all around

Today was Hayley’s last day of school for this week. I like to pretend it’s in honour of American Thanksgiving but it’s just because today was Parent-Teacher night at the school so they put a ped day for Thursday and Friday.

Proud

Hayley’s report card was excellent. It wasn’t that I have low expectations for her or anything, I know what she’s capable of, but from the way Hayley was talking sometimes I wasn’t sure WHAT to expect. Her grades were fantastic. She was above the class average in almost all her subjects but what made me especially proud was that it included French, a subject that stresses her out tremendously.

I’m still sick but George is far worse off, feeling pretty much the way I did yesterday so I told him to just stay home and I took Hayley with me. Her teachers had great things to say, both telling me Hayley is creative and eager to learn. Her biggest issue in French apparently is not asking for help when she doesn’t understand. The teacher is indeed French but speaks English perfectly well so she can easily explain anything that needs clarification.

We went upstairs to the library and I bought Hayley a book from the Scholastic book fair while we were there. She had bought two chapter books during the day but she had also really wanted to get a special interactive fairy tale book. It tells part of the story but she gets to fill in the blanks and draw pictures, and so on. It’s exactly the kind of thing that she enjoys; she has tons of notebooks full of short stories that she’s written. I figured it was a good present to give her after such good results.

As for me, I survived. I don’t mind grumbling about being sick but I don’t like to LOOK like I’m sick so I pulled myself together and resisted the urge to go up unshowered while still wearing the jogging pants and George’s flannel shirt that I’d been wearing for two days. Instead I managed to wash my hair, poke contacts into my eyes, and I slapped on a bit of makeup and faked being perfectly fine.

46/52 - Faking it

Hey, at least I survived. But hoo boy, did I have those comfortable clothes back on in no time flat.

Perhaps an early bedtime is in order. While I feel more functional than the write-off which was yesterday, I would really like to feel 100% human again soon; perhaps I could even manage to take Winnie for a proper walk again. Yeah. Bedtime it is.

Looking for a little time out please

Despite the fact that I know there are serious health issues all over the world (the cholera outbreak in Haiti springs immediately to mind as a tragic example), I am feeling compelled to whine about my own health.

I’ve been fighting down a cold for a week or so, and it finally reached a rousing crescendo this weekend, complete with sinus pain and a complete lack of energy (or ability to breathe without copious amounts of vaporub on my nose).

This morning when I woke to a damp and rainy day I still felt run-down and had to pop two cough drops before it was even 7:15 am just to try to ease the mass irritation going on in my throat. When I got Hayley off to school and had finished taking the dog out I figured a hot coffee would help my throat pain and also warm me up since I couldn’t stop shaking. I drank it while lounging about with my book and hoped I would soon feel better.

The problem was Breanna had woken up the night before just as I was heading to bed. Since George was still up he brought her out to the living room and sent me off to sleep. I crashed immediately. I was then yanked out of a zombie-fueled dream (and as an aside, wtf is up with that? I never had a dream about zombies in my entire life that I can recall and since I started watching The Walking Dead I average one or two per week, sheesh!) at one in the morning as George announced that Breanna had just puked all over the blanket on the couch. Ah. Okay.

She was only sick the one time but complained of a tummy ache for awhile afterwards and into today. A bit of good old gastro we figure.

And so of course, on top of the cold-turned-sinus-and-pain-disaster I got gastro as well. I feel like absolute hell and spent most of the day in bed. Shortly after putting my book down this morning, I suddenly felt awful and sat on the floor in front of the toilet for awhile. I eventually came out with a bucket in hand and told George that I was lying down in the bedroom. I felt bad because I had wanted him to go take a nap since I knew he hadn’t slept much the night before but I was pretty much non-functional. I alternated between reading my book, reading my camera manual, surfing the net on my iPod, and dozing. For all the resting I did I still don’t feel much better.

Getting sick with something new while still sick with your previous ailment is seriously not cool. I know that there’s little as boring as reading about someone’s whiny sickness on the Internet but there you have it. To quote Tiffany quoting Temerity Jane, “It’s NaBloPoMo, and they can’t all be winners.” Indeed.

Splish Splash!

On Sunday, the day after Breanna’s birthday party, we got up fairly early for a post-party day because we had another full day of excitement ahead of us. Our friends were having a birthday party for their daughter that day and because she’s half fish they had decided to have the party at a fantastic indoor pool called the Aquadome. I had heard of it before and had seen a few pictures but I had never been before.

We started off in a party room for some lunch, music, and birthday cake. Breanna made me laugh because she came up to get me so I could take a picture of her piece of cake before she ate it; I have NO IDEA where she might get that from. Ahem.

Like mother, like daughter

Afterwards it was time to get the kids changed into their bathing suits. I hadn’t brought mine because I had already packed it away and didn’t remember which storage tub it was in, and I was coming down with a wicked cold. Let me tell you, I was full of regret when I walked out of the locker room and saw the “pool”.

Holy crap

Rain drops are falling on my head

(you can see Breanna on the far right in the photo above)

More pool

Boarding

Wheee!

What a seriously fun place. They have a huge section that is quite shallow so kids who are young can splash around. Breanna stuck to that area and spent some time on a small slide that they had. There was also the big umbrella spilling water down, which was shallow. Then there was an area that Hayley played in that was a bit deeper but only about 3 feet so she felt safe and comfortable. They have a huge spiral slide that I am dying to try if we go back again. On the opposite side of the complex is a section for swimming laps, and there’s apparently a large deep pool with diving boards, but I didn’t see it since I was sticking close to my kids even if I couldn’t be in the water with them.

They had a total blast and really, can you blame them? I really want to go back at some point. The room is super warm and mildly humid (but not to a point of discomfort) and the water is heated so it’s perfect for winter swimming.

Since we weren’t too far from my parents’ place we stopped by after we left the party. My parents couldn’t be out this way for Breanna’s party so we went to see them so they could give Breanna her gift. Breanna had really liked the Club Penguin toys they got for Hayley (she plays too) so they got her three different ones. She was pretty happy with her present as you can see in the big hug she gave my dad.

Birthday hugs

(I think my dad was pretty happy with the hug!)

We only stayed for half an hour since we were all tired and it was a school night. Not wanting to pick up something for supper only to have to cook it when we got home, we picked up some Kentucky Fried Piegeon Seagull Chicken and had that. It was nice and fast and easy.

Winding down

Breanna played quietly with her new Littlest Pet Shop toys while Hayley had a quick bath and then I got them into bed a little earlier than usual. Both of them were asleep so fast it wasn’t even funny. Hayley looked nice and awake when I got her up for school and Breanna actually slept in – I got Hayley ready, got her to school, and walked the dog before she woke up. She ended up sleeping almost 12 hours so I guess she really needed it.

It was an exhausting weekend and I’m glad they aren’t all go, go, go like that but once in awhile they’re a whole lot of fun.

Party girl

As I mentioned in my previous post, my little baby turned five on November 20th and although I neither understand how nor gave my permission for her to grow up so quickly, here we are at age five.

This was the first year Breanna really got into the birthday party thing. She enjoyed her parties in the past but this year she kept a close eye on the calendar. Each morning for about a week and a half she would wake up, tell me what the date was and then she’d go out and look for it on the wall calendar. Then when she’d get in to bed she would tell me what the date was going to be the next day. She could hardly wait and the fact that her actual birthday and the day of her party were one and the same was almost too much for her.

She woke up at about 7:30 on Saturday and she was groggy for a moment when she suddenly realized – and announced – “it’s 20 today! It’s my birthday!” That was it for staying in bed; we were all awake and up in the living room to do presents having decided we’d give her our gifts before the party.

She wasn’t eager AT ALL.

FIVE!

Hayley had gotten her a tea party set for her birthday after I suggested it; the day before Breanna had been playing tea party with random items because some of the cups she had before had broken. Breanna loves tea parties with us or with her stuffed toys so she was pretty happy.

Tea party

Then George and I gave her the gift from us. She has a good idea of what she was getting but she wasn’t 100% sure until she opened it. She was thrilled to get what her big sister got back in September.

Yippee!

The two of them immediately set up side by side to play Club Penguin on their laptops at the coffee table. This was great for me since it made it easy to clean up in peace for the party.

Dueling penguins

In addition to that, in the late morning my sister-in-law called because she was in town for a work conference. Having Saturday afternoon off she wondered if she could take them both out for lunch so I dressed them and happily passed them along so I could do more party prep in peace (well, if you count blasting Shakira as “peace”).

It was a very stress-free party. We decided to start it at 6:30 so there was no supper to prepare. Breanna had requested chicken legs in the oven, rice, and corn for her birthday supper so I made that and quickly cleared it away and once people arrived I set up the table with snacks. We served chips, pretzels, cheesies, cheese, crackers, pate, tomato pizza, a vegetable platter, fruit platter, and of course cake. There were also juice boxes for the kids and beer or wine for the adults.

Spread

Breanna was so happy to have her friends over that she barely even ate her cake (chocolate cake with blue icing and a dolphin on top, just as she requested) but I’m sure she’ll eat the rest of it over the coming days.

It’s fun to have friends for the kids and friends for the adults all at the same time. I love our parties.

Buddies

Also buddies

She got some great gifts including a fuzzy sweater that she loves, a gift card to Toys R Us, some money, and the Littlest Pet Shop Rescue Center with extra animals on the side. I’d say she was a very lucky girl for her birthday.

The party went until past midnight at which point Breanna was literally falling asleep on my shoulder but before she nodded off I managed one picture with the girl who was once only 8+ pounds.

My "little" girl

Happy birthday Breebies.

(Full set over here)

Turning five

Last night I kissed a four-year-old girl good night. She was very excited, full of anticipation for Saturday, the day she knew carried the number 20 on the calendar.

Big girl

This morning I woke up to a five-year-old girl. Somehow, in some insane way, my “baby” is five.

We had a party but it’s late and I’m tired and we have another big day tomorrow so I’ll leave it at that and give you a couple of pictures from yesterday when she helped me make her cake.

Making the cake

Cake time

I don’t know where the time has gone.

New toys

When I was a kid I always loved getting new toys. Now that I’m an adult I have to say I haven’t quite outgrown my love of toys, just that my idea of what a toy actually is has changed.

(Don’t be a perv, that’s not what I mean!)

As anyone who knows me is aware, I love taking pictures. I’ve been taking them with my Canon Rebel XT for several years now and it’s what prompted me to learn how to actually use a camera. On the XT I learned about things like aperture, shooting in manual, and what RAW files are. It was a great educational tool.

Sadly it was dying a slow but inevitable death. Luckily I am fickle and still love new toys.

Hence I am now the happy owner of a Canon T1i and I am eager to see the results of my new baby. I would share some of my test shots but alas, it seems that the RAW files from the T1i are not compatible with my software so I’m on the hunt for something new to play and convert to JPG.

That will have to wait though since tomorrow is Breanna’s birthday and I must head off to sleep to prepare for the party tomorrow. Five years old in the a.m. I don’t even know how that’s possible.

Lessons learned and mistakes fixed

Back in 1997 I fulfilled two little dreams that I had. First of all, I went to Mexico which was a place I was dying to see. I was in Cancun for a week and had a blast. Lately Mexico hasn’t been very Canadian-friendly but I would still love to go back one day.

The second dream I fulfilled was during a day trip from Cancun to Xcaret. The trip itself wasn’t particularly worthwhile. It cost the same thing as the day trip to the ruins in Chichen Itza but that trip included an air-conditioned double-decker bus with a bathroom on board, complementary continental breakfast on the bus, a tour guide for a couple of hours to see the ruins, a choice of four lunch venues at the hotel nearby, and mini Corona bottles and chips on the bus ride home. In comparison the trip to Xcaret was on a school bus and the access to the park. Every activity in the park cost extra and the food was outlandishly expensive (and not particularly good either). No matter though; aside from the spectacular night show I got to do one thing I had wanted to do for pretty much my whole life.

I swam with dolphins for 20 minutes. It cost me about $70 US but it was worth every penny to me. I got to take part in a dolphin trick (all of us stretched out in the water holding hands in a line and the dolphins swam under us and then jumped over us multiple times), and the best part of all was the 15 minutes of free swim time. The dolphins were like rubbery puppies, swimming around us, poking their noses at us to get us to pet them, and I was completely in love. I also got a photo taken with two of them.

Before I knew better

It was one of the best things I had ever done and I had hoped that one day I’d get a chance to do it again since dolphins are my favorite wild animal.

Then I watched the documentary The Cove and I know that I will never do it ever again. Having watched what the dolphin industry costs the dolphins themselves, it doesn’t feel like I paid nearly enough money that day.

If you haven’t seen the movie I strongly urge you to do so. It had me bawling into tissues but it is so worth watching. The dolphin industry doesn’t give a crap about the dolphins they train for our enjoyment. A few of the many problems:

  • The lifespan of dolphins in captivity is about half that of a dolphin in the wild.
  • Dolphins in the wild will cover hundreds of kilometers in the ocean in a single day; there’s no such thing as a tank or outdoor captivity area large enough to fulfill their basic needs.
  • Dolphins in places like Taiji, Japan are herded by the hundreds or thousands into a tiny cove, crowded in there in terror; dolphin programs (swim with the dolphins, dolphin shows, etc) bid on the dolphins they want and take them to their locations, separating these highly social and attached animals from their families.
  • The dolphins that are not chosen are herded into a neighboring cove and slaughtered. SLAUGHTERED. The turquoise ocean water literally turns red with the blood of hundreds and hundreds of dolphins.
  • The slaughtered dolphins are cut up, packaged under a generic (and inaccurate) label of “fish”, then sold to unsuspecting Japanese consumers as well as schools which then serve the dolphin to its students; this is highly problematic since dolphins have dangerously high mercury levels. In the film it was said that if a dolphin washed up on the shores of the United States it would technically be considered toxic waste because of the mercury levels. Mercury is long known to cause major health problems, but most people approached in Japan during filming had no idea they were eating dolphin to begin with.

Nice, right?

I try not to preach too much but I love dolphins and this is something near and dear to my heart. I would love so much to hop in the water and swim around with a dolphin again but I can’t let myself do that because the cost of that joy is too high. Instead I’ll settle for helping to educate people about a problem they may not realize exists simply because dolphins always look so happy. They’re not smiling because they’re happy; they’re “smiling” because that’s just they way their faces are built.

There are a lot of things you can do, and aside from learning more or getting something cool from their shops which gives proceeds right back into the funding to save more dolphins (I have this awesome hat), you can also sign the pledge below. I did and I stand by it.

(This is not a sponsored post. This is just me donning my activist hat for a moment.)

Musical collaboration

For about the past year George has been working on songwriting with another very talented man named James who lives in Florida. They met online through a mutual friend and they both work very well together. They’ve created dozens of incredible songs and they chat on Skype regularly to talk music and shoot the shit too. He’s a great guy.

As always with music, while I like all their songs there are some that I like more than others. I have a handful of favorites but their recent collaboration, called “A Hard Place” just hit me like a ton of bricks. It’s told from the point of view of a Marine who realizes that the only way he’s coming home is in a flag-draped coffin. The song is a letter home to his wife, apologizing for her that he can’t keep his promise of coming back safe and sound and telling her all the things she’ll need to do. It’s a tear jerker and very moving.

George did the music and James wrote the lyrics and did the vocals. He was a Marine himself so he knows of what he speaks in this song. After listening to it a few times I asked if I could make a photo montage video of it. Using attribution licensed photos from Flickr’s Creative Commons section I put this together and wanted to share it with you.

(If you’re one of the many people with someone fighting out there somewhere, please know this song is extremely emotional; I won’t be offended if you choose not to listen or watch the video.)

It’s a beautiful tribute and it pains me to think of how many loved ones have gotten letters much like that one. I hope you enjoy it.

Lyrics in the extended entry:

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